| Online Dating is Not a Contest Online dating is not a | | | | and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want |
| competition between competing males for the | | | | you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are |
| attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set | | | | some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live |
| from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t | | | | up to that expectation. Women want a communicator. |
| high school. You are all grown up and have been for | | | | The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing |
| quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most | | | | at all. They think you probably don’t have an original |
| important asset you have. You should like yourself and | | | | thought in your head and you probably haven’t |
| not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t | | | | heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t |
| YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all | | | | care what they said or didn’t even hear what they |
| women want. What is that women want, you ask? | | | | said. They want you to be interesting enough to want |
| That’s the age old question. Being of the female | | | | to know more about you and they want you to think |
| persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women | | | | that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent |
| want and don’t want. Women want a man to be | | | | questions about what is important to them, too. |
| confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big | | | | Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They |
| difference. You need to like yourself and not be self | | | | don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the |
| depreciating but you don’t need to come across | | | | ONE woman that you want to be with. |
| like you believe that you are a gift to them from God | | | | |