| Paying More Attention to Your Woman | | | | where communication failed you. Was it something |
| Communication is such an important factor in all | | | | you said in a particular conversation that you came to |
| relationships, business and personal alike, that it should | | | | regret later? Or was it something she said that you |
| come as no surprise that we need to discuss it here | | | | either treated as unimportant or simply didn't hear at |
| as well. What is communication, after all? It is the | | | | all? Or could it have been a time when you should |
| two-way interaction that occurs, both verbally and | | | | have said something to her, but didn't, and the results |
| non-verbally. What is said with actions is as important, | | | | were equally regrettable? Surely all of these have |
| if not more so, than what is said with words. But here | | | | happened to nearly everyone at one time or another. |
| we're going to focus our attention on the importance | | | | The trick is to not let these past failures define how |
| of verbal communication and what it will mean for your | | | | you communicate now and in the future of your |
| relationship. Keep in mind that when I talk about how | | | | current relationship. |
| things affect your relationship, I'm mainly concerned | | | | Talking is something we all think about when we hear |
| with your success in the realm of seduction. | | | | the word 'communication'. But, unfortunately, that first |
| Communication with words is something we all do on | | | | thought is the wrong one if you're looking for a good |
| a daily basis. But, just like when you're asked to give | | | | relationship with potential for romance. Talking will get |
| an impromptu speech, being asked to communicate in | | | | you nowhere, and worse, it may cause things to fall |
| a particular situation just makes many of you cringe, | | | | backward or even to fall apart. When you talk, you're |
| lock up, and find yourself at a loss for words. Why? | | | | expecting someone else to listen. |
| Mainly because when you have to think about what to | | | | But what about the listener? When does she get the |
| say, you suddenly become concerned about what | | | | chance to be heard? That's why it's so much better to |
| you're saying. But if you just let it happen without any | | | | change your view from one of simply talking, to one |
| expectations, somehow everything works out a whole | | | | where you see communication as the carrying on of a |
| lot better. | | | | conversation. |
| That being said, think of your past relationships and | | | | |